My dad doesn't drive anymore, and we're not crazy about my mom driving long distances, or even on the freeway, to tell you the truth. But my dad wanted to see his brother, Ed. My uncle Ed lives in Bandon, Oregon, and it is not readily accessible via airport - plus my uncle Ed doesn't drive anymore either.
So I volunteered to drive with my dad to Bandon. Bandon is on the coast of Oregon in the southern half of the state. It is a very small town south of Coos Bay, and it is an absolutely breathtaking area. We drove south from Seattle past Eugene, OR, then cut over on highway 38 to the 101. All very pretty driving. We had perfect weather - sunny and warm, which is always a blessing here in the Northwest.
I hadn't seen my uncle since 1989. I have nothing but fond memories of Uncle Ed and Aunt Harriet. Aunt Harriet died a few years ago from ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease). Now Uncle Ed lives alone a few miles outside of Bandon on five acres of wooded, natural land. Soooo pretty.
I remember my uncle Ed as a tall man, over six feet two, which is how tall my dad was in his prime. He has a deep voice that is always pleasant to hear. I learned that he was licensed to operate and run radio stations after WWII, and he also did the announcing. (They were small stations, and on his shift he pretty much took care of everything.) He has that kind of voice. He was an engineer by profession, but a musician by hobby. He sang for years in barbershop quartets, and even competed nationally. When they moved to Bandon 30 years ago he became involved in their local drama organization, and was the musical director for their productions for over 25 years. He also led his church choir for over 18 years.
Uncle Ed is now severely stooped, walks with a cane or walker, and has extremely limited eyesight. But his mind is clear, and we had a delightful few hours with him. He and my dad reminisced (which I love) about their youth. Then we went to lunch together. One thing I really like about my uncle Ed, is his gentle, easy going manner. That is still the same. He has a very positive outlook on life.
Here is a picture of my dad's family-- Uncle Ed is the tall blonde boy in the back, the oldest. My dad is the boy in the center of the front row. He's the youngest boy but only three years separate them. My dad (79) and Ed (82) are the only surviving members of the family.

Here are the two brothers last weekend, my dad on the left, Uncle Ed on the right:

Look at that delightful smile. I'm so glad I got to have that time with him.