Tuesday, April 28, 2009

A casual conversation

Lunch time at my house today:

Austin: I saw Cosmo today.
Me: (knowing he didn't) You did?
Austin: Yes. My mommy was at the hospital, and I went to the volleyball game. It was fun.

The boy has the memory of an elephant; just not the correct adverbs to put time in correct perspective.

Monday, April 27, 2009

Paper or ... digital?

As soon as I got into the library I closed my eyes and took a deep breath. I got a whiff of the leather on all the old books, a smell that got real strong if you picked one of them up and stuck your nose real close to it when you turned the pages. Then there was the smell of the cloth that covered the brand-new books, the books that made a splitting sound when you opened them. Then I could sniff the paper, that soft, powdery, drowsy smell that comes off the pages in little puffs when you're reading something or looking at some pictures, a kind of hypnotizing smell.
-- Bud, Not Buddy by Christopher Paul Curtis, p. 54 (2000 Newbery Medal Winner)

When I first read that passage, it was as if Curtis was looking directly into my memories. That's exactly how I remembered the library I used to go to as a young girl.  My mother would take me there, and I recall her pointing out books she thought I might like. I think I liked them all. It was especially thrilling when she'd say, "I think you might be ready for this book now." Then I knew I was moving up in the reading world. 

Once I was old enough to ride my bike to the library, that's what I did. I'm trying to think how far away it would have been from my house. Perhaps two or three miles. I would go every two weeks (that's how long a book could be checked out for). I'd pile the books on the back of my bike and strap them on. Then I'd ride to the library, and turn them all in. I'd browse the stacks, savoring all the possibilities. Eventually I would choose my books. I'd get two or three new books, and two or three that I'd already read (just like visiting a good friend often). I'd ride home, and devour the books. I repeated the process every two weeks. I was beside myself if I didn't have something on hand to read. Luckily we had a lot of books at home also. I went to the library like that for a long time. 

Reading to me is not just visual, it's tactile also. I love the feel of a book in my hands. I prefer the weight and substance of a hardback, but a paperback will do just fine. I enjoy the feel of the paper. In hardbacks there is more variety of paper, and more chance for a great feeling paper. I notice the font and layout of a book too. The smell of each book is distinctive. I don't put my nose right to the book, but I can't help noticing the smell. Old books' and new books' odors are vastly different. The binding makes a difference too. All these are subtle things that add to my reading experience with each book. 

For Mother's Day (a little early), Ray gave me a Kindle. For those of you who don't know what that is, it's an electronic book - sort of. You can download books and read them on the Kindle (go check it out at Amazon - it's hard for me to explain). Sort of like a hand-held computer, but just books, magazines and newspapers. It's the ideal solution for me for travelling. I'm not going to lie - when I travel, about half the weight of my luggage is the books I bring along. After all, what would happen if I ran out of reading material !!?? Now I can have all those books in one lightweight, fits-in-my-purse Kindle.  

I've regarded the Kindle with not a little trepidation. So this week I jumped in and read a book on it (Wormwood). Here's my evaluation: I liked it. It will never replace a real book, but I did find it easy to use and easy to read. There are a couple of things I don't care for. There are no page numbers, just the percentage you've completed reading. I like to know right where I am in a book. Depending on the book, I may want to slow down and have it last a little longer, or I might try to rush and get the last part done quickly. It's hard to gauge that on the Kindle. Also, I am a very visual person. When I read a book, I see it's cover and author every time I pick up the book. That is one way I remember if I've read a book, and it is for sure what helps me remember who wrote it. Sometimes when I'm searching for a book on my shelves I'll know to look for a yellow spine, or a certain font in the title, etc. With the Kindle you don't see the cover except when you first start the book. 

The Kindle won't replace reading a real book for me. Luckily, it doesn't have to. I have room in my life for both. I will enjoy having many reading options in one small package when I travel.  And I can enjoy the full experience of a real book the rest of the time.

The best part about the Kindle: it is so easy to hold hands with Ray while I'm reading. I don't have to let go of his hand to turn the page!

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Wormwood by Susan Wittig Albert

This is the latest in the China Bayles series. These books have been consistently very good. 

Saturday, April 25, 2009

Fast Fix-it

Perhaps it's the fastest ever that we've completed a fix-it to the house. By "we" I mean Ray and Ray. And this time it was mostly Ray our son. We've had water coming in one of the downstairs bedrooms since we moved here. Okay, so maybe the repair wasn't fast in commencing, but once started it was done quickly. Ray O (younger) dug out along the wall. The finished ditch was about two feet wide, eleven feet long, and four and a half feet deep. Then Ray and Ray put in a french drain and hooked it up to the drainpipe from the downspout. Then Ray O filled in the ditch. Time to complete: 2 days.

It was supposed to rain all week. Ray shoveled the last of the dirt back, and it started raining an hour later. Not a drop fell the whole time he was working. What a blessing.

Here's the laborer hard at work:


Here's his captivated audience. The boys had a lot of fun watching Ray:


I had a lot of fun watching everyone!

Friday, April 24, 2009

Joseph the Prophet Tribute Quilt

In 2005 our church commemorated the 200 year anniversary of the birth of Joseph Smith. Here in Salt Lake there was a big celebration program, and other activities. In Seattle, where we were at the time, it was a much quieter celebration. (No big events.)

I came to Salt Lake for a visit in 2005 - maybe more than one visit - but while here I happened to stop in at the Bernina dealer where I bought my sewing machine. There was a woman working on one of the squares for this quilt. I asked her about it, and she told me it was a Block of the Month series, in honor of Joseph Smith. I decided I'd like to do it, and I wrote down all the information so I could get the patterns. I really liked the idea of doing it in Seattle. I figured not many, if any people would be doing this quilt there, and I'd be one of the only ones to make it.

I got the blocks, and began. Then a little glitch happened. We decided to move to Utah. This project got put away pretty fast. Then all my sewing stuff got packed up. So much for commemorating Joseph Smith's birth. After we moved and I got wrapped up in life here I thought I'd be lucky to be commemorating Joseph Smith's death with the quilt.

Last year when I made my inventory of quilts and projects to finish I pulled out this quilt. I started sewing on it, and I finished it today! I'm very happy with it. Ray asked who it was for. I said, "Me!" I guess I have given away several quilts lately...
The blocks all have something to do with the life/times of Joseph Smith.
#1 Log Cabin
#2 Brightness and Glory
#3 True Lover's Knot
#4 Tree of Life
#5 A House of Order
#6 Broken Windows
#7 Broken Dishes
#8 Ocean Waves
#9 Hovering Hawks
#10 Sister's Choice
#11 King's Highway
#12 A Song of Praise
Can you pick out which block is which? They are not sewn together in order.

Finished: April 42, 2009
Quilt size: 75 inches X 90 inches
Quilt pattern: Joseph the Prophet Tribute Quilt byKennel Club Girls
Fabric: Thimbleberries

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Sylvester by Georgette Heyer

Another Georgette Heyer book. These are clean, light romances, so far all of them set in the early 19th century. I think The Grand Sophy may still be my favorite so far. 

These will be good books for traveling - easy to keep track of the story, easy on the mind. She wrote several of them, so I think there will be quite a few to choose from in the future.

For now, I'm on to more serious reading. It's getting to be biography season (somehow I read a lot of biographies in the summer). I've got Sir Isaac Newton waiting, and George Washington, to name just a couple.

...I do have a couple of other books I want to get done, and book group books. Hmm, I wonder which I'll pick up next?

Monday, April 20, 2009

State of Play

Excellent movie--twists and turns, suspenseful, great acting. I don't want to give it away - go see it!

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Spring is finally on its way!

Last week the branches on the trees outside my dining room window looked like this:
I didn't think Spring was ever going to get here. Then we had two days of snow to prove it. This morning I sat down to eat breakfast, and looked out the window. The leaves have already started emerging! In just a week there is a big difference:
I looked out in the back yard, and we have one bush that has bravely gone forth and started to bloom. All the bushes around it are still barren - not even any leaves. It gives me joy to look out and see these flowers, braving the cold, and still shining forth:

Once I noticed those flowers, I looked around and noticed the ground cover starting to bloom:

Spring is on its way! Last Sunday it was nice enough for a little while that Debra and Madeleine could sit out on the porch and enjoy the rocker:



I've had the doldrums the last few weeks. I needed this burst of Spring to help boost me out of it. Then I read a great article in the current BYU Magazine (their alumni magazine) about commitment. It was so inspiring that I decided to make a few new commitments and/or renew some commitments in my life. I won't divulge those commitments, but I will share a quote from the article that I really liked:
Let us be more aware of our commitments; decide now to keep them; follow the Master in our approach to our commitments; set realistic goals to help us endure in our commitments; anticipate the opposition that will come; and reap the blessings, both temporal and eternal, that flow to those who faithfully keep commitments. --Sarah Westerberg, Drawing Lines of Commitment, BYU Magazine, p. 41.
Spring signals a new beginning. I'm going to seize the moment, and begin to live my commitments. I'll be reminded of this goal each time I look out and see the beginnings of the new season all around me. Even if it snows again.

Three Sisters

Marilyn, Elna, Joanne

The Austin girls are amazing women. Ray's mother (Joanne) is one of them. Last Friday we were lucky enough to have them all together in our home. I admire them for many reasons. Here are just a few: they are great mothers, they are kind and loving women, and they are loads of fun to be with. They are a great example to me in every way. I'm thankful to be part of their family (another reason to be happy Ray married me).

Friday, April 17, 2009

Among the Mad by Jacqueline Winspear

This is the latest in the Maisie Dobbs series. It just came out the end of February. So far Winspear has kept up the quality of the books in the series - I look forward to more of them in the future.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Venetia by Georgette Heyer

A light, mindless book. Just what I needed to have my brain start to function normally again. I liked The Grand Sophy better, but these are safe book fluff.

I think I'll head back into a mystery next. (Surprise!)

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Massacre at Bear River - First, Worst, Forgotten by Rod Miller

The husband of a member of my book group wrote this book, and we are reading it this month. He's going to come and talk to us about it.

I found the book interesting - it is very well researched. In January of 1863, the military attacked a tribe of Shoshone Indians on the Bear River (just north of the Utah territory). It was the first attack to use some of the military tactics that later became more common. It was the worst such massacre to occur, and it has largely been forgotten over the years. 

Friday, April 10, 2009

I am a dolt

Looking back over my blog, I noticed that I did indeed post about Elizabeth already. The day she was born. I even gave the post the same title. So, Tweeter - have you really been reading the blog? 

I might need to be committed. Or at least get away for a while. Or lose myself in a really good book. With some good chocolate at hand. Not today, but maybe tomorrow.

She's here!

She's here, and eight days old already. I have been remiss (I hope that sounds better than the truth, which is that I must be a loser grandma because I haven't posted about this yet). Thankfully my sister and her family reminded me that they've been waiting to read about Elizabeth. I got caught up with having Austin and Matthew here, a wild and wonderful conference weekend, and hosting a wedding reception here at my home tonight. Not great excuses, but my excuses nevertheless.

So here's the scoop on Elizabeth Linford Hanks. She arrived April 2 at 1:43 a.m. She weighed 9 lbs. 7 oz, and was 20 inches long. She is a chubby little thing, and already has little fat feet (my favorite baby feature). After close examination of Elizabeth and then looking at Audrey's baby pictures, we think she strongly resembles Audrey. Lucky girl!

Here are a few pictures, taken on the day of her birth. I had every intention of coming straight home and posting them, but as you know, that did not happen.

Here's the beautiful new baby:
Here she is with her loving, if forgetful, grandma:
Elizabeth and her grandpa (called Pa'a):
Elizabeth's favorite uncle Ray - he's an expert on holding nieces:
Oh yes, I almost forgot - Elizabeth has a mother. Here's Audrey - doesn't she look great for having had a baby only about 8 hours previously?
Here's the happy family, Joseph, Audrey, Austin, Matthew, and Elizabeth. Aren't they beautiful?

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Volleyball update

Unfortunately, we lost the volleyball match last night. Fortunately, the Cosmo obsession was put to rest. We arrived at the game, Austin stood in his chair searching the stands, saying "Where's Cosmo?". Then he sat. He told me "Cosmo is a cougar" (heavy emphasis on the first syllable). That was it. He watched the game, and when it was all over told me he loves the volleyball games.

Friday, April 3, 2009

More Bear Conversation (see previous post)

Me: What do you want for lunch?
Austin: Hot dogs. Cold. What's his name?
Me: Whose name?
A: The bear
Me: Cosmo
A: I don't like the bear

20 minutes go by.
Me (mid conversation): I love you Austin
A: I don't like the bear
Me: That's okay
A: Cosmo is nice. Matthew, Cosmo is nice
Matthew: Cosmo is nice

Another 20 minutes:
A: Cosmo is nice. He is a Cougar.
M: Cougar's are scary. Cosmo is nice.
A: I don't like the bear. Cosmo is nice.
(pause)
A: Can we go to the volleyball game now?
Me: No, we'll go later. After dinner.

I think I can predict most of the conversation for the rest of the afternoon. It will be interesting to see how the game goes tonight.

True Blue

Ray and I have season tickets to the BYU Men's Volleyball games. Last night we brought the boys along with us. Here is a close approximation of the conversation Austin (age 3 1/2) and Matthew (age 2) had about the game this morning:

A: I like the volleyball game last night. The Cougar Song was two times (BYU's fight song).
M: I like the football game too
A: No, it was the volleyball. At the B-By-U.
M: I like the football game at the B-By-U
A: No, the football game is at the Bingham school (where Joseph teaches High School). The volleyball is at the B-By-U.
M: okay. I don't like the bear (Cosmo, BYU's mascot, which is actually a cougar)
A: I don't like the bear.

30 minutes later:
A: Maybe I go the volleyball game tonight. I don't want the bear. I still want to go the game.

Here's what happened with the bear. We were at the game, and both boys declared they needed to use the toilet. At their ages that prompts immediate action. I grabbed them both by the hand, and crept past the other fans with the usual "excuse me, excuse me, so sorry", etc. We finally reached the bottom of the stands, and there stood Cosmo. He was ready to be friendly and high five the boys. The boys on the other hand became frozen with terror. They gripped my hands so tightly I thought my circulation would be cut off. I reassured them that Cosmo is friendly. No dice. I finally said loudly enough that I thought Cosmo might take the hint - "Cosmo will move out of our way. He won't hurt us." I had to pick up Matthew and drag Austin past the doorway, and out into the track to be on our way to the bathrooms. The boys would not let go, their heads swiveling rapidly from side to side, trying to keep Cosmo in their sights.  Then when we reached the bathroom, they were too scared to go. Well, I didn't leave till there was some action in that department. Finally they finished. Then they didn't want to go back - because of the bear. 

I don't know when I have encountered such resistance. Feet dragging, hands gripping mine, I finally had to pick Matthew up again, and dragged Austin along. We got back to the entrance of the stands and they wouldn't cross the doorway - where was the bear?? I told them the bear wasn't there, and somehow I managed to get us back in our seats. Austin immediately put on his coat and pulled the hood over his head (extra protection, I suppose.) He spent the remainder of the time scanning the stands for Cosmo, asking repeatedly "Where is the bear?" As soon as he would spot Cosmo, he would freeze and watch to make sure he wasn't coming any closer. Yes, I tried to explain that it wasn't a real bear, that it was just a boy dressed up like a bear - kind of like Halloween. Hah! Austin looked at me like I'd lost my mind. He endured the game. I thought he'd be scarred for life, but then he had the above conversation first thing this morning.

Just now: 
A: I want to go the volleyball game tonight. At the B-By-U. 

Is he trying to convince himself? 

I wonder where they get it from???

talkative [taw-kuh-tiv] - adjective - inclined to talk a great deal

This word springs to mind constantly. I have Austin and Matthew here with me for a couple of days and nights while Audrey is still in the hospital with Elizabeth. 

Adjective or genetic trait?

Thursday, April 2, 2009

She's here!

Elizabeth arrived early this morning. Here are a couple of the details every grandmother loves to share:

Time: 1:43 a.m.
Weight: 9 lb. 7 oz.
Length: 20 inches

You can see her abundance of brown hair. The tips of her hair are a little lighter than the rest - is there a secret hair salon in the womb? We've heard her eyes are blue, but she was asleep the whole time we were there, so I'll just trust her parents on that one. She is so chubby! It is so fun. She already has little fat pads on her feet. Ooh, she is positively delightful.

Grandchild number five. Third child for Audrey and Joseph (two boys, and now one girl). While Audrey, Joseph and Elizabeth are enjoying their hospital stay, the boys are enjoying a couple of days Chez G'ma. We are having treats, going for drives, and even going to the BYU volleyball game tonight. Party on!